Archive - August, 2007

Movie Recommendation

A week or so ago I watched the movie The Painted Veil and it became one of my favorite films.  It is an incredibly powerful story of forgiveness and restoration. It has some amazing scenes that would preach. Great cast, great story, amazing scenery.

Kitty Garstin (Naomi Watts) is a pretty, shallow young woman from a well-to-do London family, under pressure from her parents to find a husband. Soon after she meets him at a party, she marries Dr. Walter Fane (Edward Norton), an earnest, socially awkward doctor on leave from China, even though she does not love him. The Fanes move to Shanghai, where Dr. Fane is stationed in a government lab studying infectious diseases. Soon bored, Kitty meets Charles Townsend (Schreiber), a married British diplomat who is a serial womanizer, and has an affair with him. When Walter finds out, he gives her an ultimatum: persuade Townsend to divorce his wife and marry her, or come with him to the Chinese interior to assist with a cholera epidemic relief effort for which he has volunteered. When Townsend, to Kitty’s surprise but not Walter’s, refuses to leave his wife for Kitty, she chooses to travel with her husband. At first, Walter and Kitty barely speak to each other. Kitty is miserable, with nothing to do. She decides to volunteer at a local orphanage run by French nuns, which her husband visits often outside of his lab work. In this setting Kitty begins to see her apparently-cold husband in a new light, as she learns what a selfless and caring person he can be.

I don’t want to give away too much but yet enough to entice you to rent this wonderful film. It speaks so well to forgiveness and character and the challenging – yet not impossible – work of restoring relationships.

Youth Ministry Read

Contemplativebookcover I’m reading a great book right now entitled Contemplative Youth Ministry by Mark Yaconelli, son of youth ministry guru, Mike Yaconelli.  It is amazing!  In fact, I read about two-thirds of the book this evening which is evidence of how good it is and also evidence that I am not taking the necessary time to really engage the text which is a shame.  I am going to have to slow down and journey through it again. It is a must read for anyone that works with youth – minister or volunteer, paid or unpaid. I’d been happy to loan my copy if it will allow you to read it.

For a great review of the book (which has been out in the US for over a year), click here to read it on Jonny Baker’s blog.

I really resonate with what Yaconelli shares in this book and it affirms in many ways my philosophy of youth ministry as well as challenges me about the way I’ve been approaching and worrying about my ministry to youth.  It is very easy to be misguided by self-expectations and the expectations of the church. When you listen to these voices over being in the presence of God and loving out of that presence, well…. things get messed up. This book helps you get back to the heart of why we love teenagers and desire to share life with them.

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