Wonderings and Wanderings

Thanks for the official welcome back to RevGals!  I’ve missed my cohorts in ministry.  It has been good to see that many of you have passed by my site. I took a break from blogging for quite sometime.  I had difficulty finding my voice for several months.  Life quieted me and the opportunity to blog became another task to do rather than something to enjoy.  So I stopped.

But I’m back.  Maybe that’s a threat for some readers …   Regardless, I will be posting little snippets of life and faith and all that jazz.

Why is it that the smallest old ladies have the biggest cars?

I just had reason to ponder that on my drive into work this morning. Sometimes it looks like old buicks are driving themselves but then as they drive by you close enough to see in because they are over the center line you see a little old lady who can barely see over the steering wheel.

Someone get them an Escort or a Mini-Cooper. Perhaps one of those cute little European cars that look like toys. 

This past Sunday was Youth Sunday.  My youth did an amazing job in the services.  Their leadership was excellent and they were tremendous blessings to so many attending.  My two seniors that preached were incredibly insightful and humble.  As usual, I learned from them and what they had to share.  They were transparent and honest and encouraging.  I love to hear about their faith journeys and insights.

Listen to Adam Sander’s sermon here.
Listen to Kristen Foster’s sermon here.

On Saturday, I held a garage sale for the family.  It was a miserable weather day – mid-30s and raining the whole time.  But we still made quite a bit of money and got rid of lots of things – especially, baby clothes.  Now that my sister is having a baby girl, it was time to get rid of a lot of Blake’s things. And it was a popular item to sale.

I saw "Music and Lyrics" on Friday night with a friend.  Its the movie starring Hugh Grant and Drew Barrymore where Hugh is an old 80s pop star and needs to write a new hit song.  Drew is a gifted lyricist but doesn’t really realize it.  They each have their own issues that they bring to the table but somehow work their way through – you know the plot.  But if you like Hugh and Drew and love stories and cute music … well, this is a fun film with catchy music that will haunt you into next week . .  as it is doing to me.

I’ve decided to not feel guilty about breaking my promise to post more regularly.  Guilt is overrated.  Besides, I have enough guilt for other things so not blogging is the least of the concerns.

I’ve been working this afternoon on my sermon for next Sunday.  I’ll be preaching for our pastor who is out of town that day and since I’m gone most of next week on vacation, I knew I needed to commit today to working on it.  Its coming along.  A topic close to my heart.  "Surviving the Wilderness of Validation" – a wilderness I frequently push myself into.

The last few weeks have been busy with big youth events.  About three weeks ago, 38 of my youth participated in a 30 Hour Famine weekend.  We didn’t eat for 30 hours.  They asked for pledges. We raised quite a bit of money to give to World Vision to starve world hunger.  The youth also led members of the congregation to sponsor 25 children through World Vision.  Some wonderful things. There were some great lessons on gratitude for the food that we have and conviction for sharing with those who have not.

Then this last weekend was our DiscipleNow Weekend.  Our theme was "Gimme God’.  We worked on getting back to the basics and really focusing on the relationship.  Not a focus so much on the emotional but really focusing on commitment.  Relationship is about commitment even when, especially when, you don’t feel it.  God was definitely present and it was exciting to see the Spirit at work.  The hard part is always afterwards but that was the point of the weekend so hopefully we are expecting it and will still encourage one another to be faithful in all and through all things.

Peace – Melissa

I watched the HBO Movie Sometimes in April this evening. It is a very powerful movie about the genocide in Rwanda in 1994.  It is also a powerful reminder that we are letting it happen again in Darfur.

Melissa

I’m sitting in a local coffee shop waiting for some girlfriends to arrive for an afternoon pottery party. There is a local place where you can paint and fire your own pottery design.  It sounds like a great thing to do on a cold Saturday afternoon. We’ve had snow flurries all day and a cold wind.  But it looks like spring is coming this week. 

I’ve been reading and thinking a lot about community ministries lately.  Perhaps materials I have been reading have moved me there or perhaps something inside me has moved me to select certain reading materials.  Its the chicken/egg debate.  Regardless, I cannot ignore the passion that is very strong towards meeting needs in our community and around the world.  Based on trends in our society, I believe the needs are only going to worsen.  Will the church, more specifically, my church be ready to respond to those needs?  Are we ready now?  I’ve read Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America).  My daily devotions come from a book on the sayings and teachings of Mother Theresa.  I’m watching movies that bring global atrocities into our living rooms.  I’ve toured an old church in town that is up for sale and in the heart of the poorest of the poor. I’m in a book study reading How Much is Enough? by Arthur Simon.  My pastor is preaching sermons on these issues.  I’m guilty of sometimes thinking things through too much and sometimes not thinking things through enough.  Often, I make little movement while I try to figure out the right answer and exactly how that answer will look.  I remember reading or hearing someone talking about how we think and respond to God’s will.  Often we are busy praying about something and it sounds something like this, "God, what do you want me to do?  Should I spend less money on me and help those in greater need than myself?  Do you want me to do that?"    The answer is "Duh".   I think we hesitate because we are hoping for a way out, a loop hole, or for God to relieve us of the feeling and say, "No, no, Melissa.  Its okay.  Its enough that you want to help and that you feel compassion. Acting upon those things isn’t necessary.  That would be going above and beyond."    Somehow, I know that would never be God’s response.

The key, however, is to not do these things out of guilt.  The key is to allow God to work in you to develop a true love for others so that you want to help others.  You can’t help but help others because you love them.  God so begins to work in and through you that you see the world and all that is in it through the eyes of Christ.  Money is not difficult to share because you don’t see it as yours.  Your house and possessions do not keep you from helping others because they are not yours anyway. 

My friends have arrived so I’m wrapping up my wanderings for today.  May God continue to work in each of us to make us like Christ and out of Christ in us, we care for the world around us.

Peace -
Melissa

Tomorrow is ski day with the youth. We are heading to Hidden Valley Ski Resort for the day and it should be alot of fun. 30 youth with many first-time skiers + my camcorder = hilarious footage. I hope more funny than tragic.

I’m really just looking forward to spending the day with them having some fun. We get so busy it is hard to spend time together just enjoying each others company. I miss them.

It’s just like the need for biological families to spend time together to keep relationships real and growing. It’s just like the need for the created to spend time with the Creator to keep the relationship intimate and growing. There are no short-cuts. There are no ways around it. Quality time together is a necessity for the health of relationships.